u/Complex_Tomatillo165

So me and my spouse (idk what to call him after yesterday) had a conversation with the pastor at our church. And pretty much he said that our legal marriage is wrong because we didn’t get married in church. I want to hear your opinions and views. We’re both at loss for words, we don’t want to dishonor God in anyway but we don’t know what to do about this.

I am extremely heartbroken by this, I am getting back into my faith and he’s a Reformed Baptist Christian (if that helps any). So we both didn’t know or have an understanding that getting married in court and living together before marriage was a sin.