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It feels absolutely horrible. I woke up this morning to find my pet dead. It was a horrible week last week and I was looking forward to feeling a bit better today and getting up to clean my house because I’ve been in bed for days.

I woke up and my pet I thought was fine, came back to move her and she was dead. It feels absolutely horrible, there’s nothing that can be done.

This is the icing on top to a horrible week for me. Life will not stop throwing punches. My heart is broken.

She was beautiful. She was the only reason I got out of bed in the morning. Life isn’t fair.

It feels absolutely horrible. I woke up this morning to find my pet dead. It was a horrible week last week and I was looking forward to feeling a bit better today and getting up to clean my house because I’ve been in bed for days.

I woke up and my pet I thought was fine, came back to move her and she was dead. It feels absolutely horrible, there’s nothing that can be done.

This is the icing on top to a horrible week for me. Life will not stop throwing punches. My heart is broken.

She was beautiful. She was the only reason I got out of bed in the morning. Life isn’t fair.

I have a friend I got quite close to towards the end of 2025. We hung out quite a lot and messaged a bit, and made plans that would carry into 2026 that involved them staying with me.

They started to go through stuff (or so I had to assume based on how infrequently they started checking in) which I was sad for them about. But I saw them less and less and then one day they completely disappeared for like 2 months, maybe more.

They were supposed to stay with me this week but I heard nothing about that until Friday night. They messaged and apologised for not messaging, they got distracted but when should they come?

In this time we weren’t talking I reached out and tried to call a few times but was completely ignored. So I sent back a message saying I wasn’t ready to acknowledge their response, but these were the days they could come to stay.

I feel really used and frustrated, but also hurt most of all? Also overlooked and undervalued?

What would you guys have done in this situation? Was my response fair enough, because I considered saying how I felt then realised there was a chance they’d ghost me again, so why pour emotional energy into that?

Tia!