I just broke up with my boyfriend. I have a pit in my stomach and don’t know if I made the right decision.
Obviously there is so much that goes into this. And it could be the better decision for the both of us. He really wants to keep trying and has realized some things since a serious near break up talk we had a week ago that might help him do better meeting my needs moving forward. However I go home for the summer in a few weeks, after two weeks of moving and completing finals. So in my head, we don’t have time to try and also why were we not trying these things beforehand? Idk. He is genuinely the sweetest boy ever and such a good man. He is very rare, as am I. We broke up officially today kind of, it being ultimately my decision and him wanting to keep trying. I just need advice. Has anyone ever had to end things with a good person even when it did not feel right??? How do I know I’m making the right decision? Will I hate myself for the rest of my life? 🫠 Am I ignoring all of the reasons we reached this point because I am losing him? Did I ever really put in as much effort as I should’ve? I’m spiraling. Lol. Please be kind, and if you don’t have advice or kind/reflective words to offer, keep scrolling.