u/Complete-Fix-6434

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Im sorry if there are any mistakes because English is my second language. OK so me (15f) and my (16f) im gonna call her Bri. We got very close for the past three years and I share everything with her she lives in a different state so we only FaceTime but I know her really really well. She’s like a sister to me. We never fought before but she’s very immature. I’m gonna cut short to this. We were on call and she made a comment about my body. She said “your like really skinny i saw you on an insta post if i were youre friends i would be scared of you” then she tried to laugh it off I was holding tears back and she could see that, but she didn’t stop and she added “ i dont like the out fit you should have change the colours” ( I was wearing a jeans skirt with a white and blue striped shirt with a black with black ballet shoes and the black bag with a blue hijab ) before I even went on the trip I asked her about this outfit. How does it look on me? She answered and said it looks amazing. You should definitely wear it. I asked her twice. I think it looks weird on me. Should I change the jeans skirt again she answered no you look so good. And now on call she tells me she doesn’t like the outfit that she picked. While she was telling me this, I got really emotional and started crying because I have mentioned to her before that I struggle with my body and she knew that and she made these comments that really hurt me. She clearly saw me crying and still made those comments, even though she knew how I feel about my body and how I look and still kept adding on. I just had enough. I told her I’m done then ended the call. she called me after and texted me.” Brooo it was a joke” this really hurt me and I cried after for at least 20 minutes. I really thought that she was one of my closest people. I just need to hear other peoples opinion on this. Feel free to give your opinions.

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