u/Competitive_Tip9497 — reddlx

I’ve been noticing this pattern a lot and it honestly makes no sense to me.

Some girls are into a certain lifestyle, they like the thrill, attention, “bad boy” type traits, loose boundaries, casual interactions, all that. That’s their comfort zone.

But when it comes to settling down, suddenly the script flips.

Now they want a disciplined, emotionally stable, loyal “good guy” who has his life together and treats them right.

Like… what?

You’re attracted to one type of energy, but expect long-term commitment from a completely different type of person, and somehow expect that guy to just accept everything without question.

It just feels like two completely different standards being applied at the same time.

And then they will wonder why things don’t work out long term.

Girll.. you are only for recreational purposes got it??

At some point, lifestyle and values actually have to match the kind of relationship you want. Otherwise it’s just contradiction after contradiction.