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I’m posting here because I’m going through a really stressful phase in life and wanted some guidance, especially from an astrology perspective.
All my life I’ve been a very studious person with almost no interaction with boys. During my GATE preparation, I met someone from my coaching who later turned out to be extremely toxic. He emotionally manipulated me into lending him money, promising to return it, but kept making excuses.
After joining college, I met a senior who is genuinely a very kind and pure-hearted person. We started dating, and for the first time I felt loved and safe. He has never been in a relationship before and always believed in dating to marry, which is something I value deeply too.
Because I wanted to completely move on from my past, I made a mistake—I lied to him about never being in a relationship. I did hint that I had lent money to someone, but I didn’t tell the full truth. Eventually, he found some old messages, and everything came out. It hurt him, and it created a crack in our relationship. Still, he stood by me.
He even confronted that coaching guy and helped me recover my money. But things didn’t end there.
After that confrontation, the coaching guy somehow got access to my boyfriend’s friends and shared our private chats and pictures with them. My boyfriend defended me and even lost a close friendship because of it, but he didn’t leave me.
Recently, it has started again. That guy created a fake LinkedIn account and is now harassing my boyfriend, sending him what he claims are my intimate chats and pictures. I don’t even know what exactly he has or is sending because my boyfriend doesn’t show me—he’s trying to protect me.
I feel extremely guilty and helpless. I also feel scared because this person has clearly said he will keep harassing us and “make our lives hell.” He is unemployed, failed GATE again his is bankcrupt, and seems very bitter about life.
I don’t want to take legal action right now because I’m worried about how it might affect my boyfriend’s career and family. But at the same time, I don’t know how long this will continue.
I just want peace. I want to move on, heal fully with my partner, and eventually marry him.
Why is this happening? What does this person even want? Will this situation end soon?
If anyone here can look at our kundlis (first attachment is mine and the second is my bf) and give some insight into when this difficult phase might pass, and when we might be able to settle down and get married, I would really appreciate it.
Thank you for reading.
TL;DR: Toxic ex from coaching is still harassing me and my boyfriend—looking for astrological insight on when this phase will end and when we can marry peacefully