Looking for my person tbh
Hey all!
So I'm here to look for one person to be my bestie and my person. I want someone who I can both text and talk to (I need another female voice that isn't just my own insane thoughts trapped in my head sob), someone who I can play games with, but also just send random shit to, share things on my mind, watch movies with, talk about life, etc.
I want someone who is willing to be my person for, and who I will be their person for. If you are someone who is going to ghost after 3 days, someone who is going to ditch me for their other friends all the time (not that its not okay to have other friends lol, I have other friends too, but in the past, I've had people say they that they're busy with their other friends literally every time I say lets hang out), or someone who isn't invested in a two way friendship, please don't message me.
I'm from the USA, 23 (nearly 24), unemployed for personal reasons (happy to share if we get to know each other well), and I play on steam on pc. I would really love someone else who is unemployed and chronically online too (or work from home or something similar with a lot of free time). My sleep schedule consistency is... nonexistent lol. US/UK/AUS/English speaking countries preferred, I'm open to other countries and timezones, but I will say I'm terrible with accents lol, so you might be getting a lot of "what?" if English isn't your first language (100% a me issue). Open to a console friend if games support crossplay.
Interests of mine include cooking/baking, reading and writing (if someone else loved writing too I would love to share ideas and things, though obviously, this isn't a requirement, just a fun idea), crime and mystery, ancient history and mythology, pets, and of course gaming. I ADORE Expedition 33, so if you love it too or are willing to play it and LOVE IT WITH ME that would be amazing... definitely not a requirement, but massive points if you do. I also enjoy a lot of other games, rpgs, roguelite/likes, card games, survival craft, friendslop games. I just bought bg3 and want someone to play it with who doesn't mind me being a noob andhaving a ton of questions and such. I also have a couple hundred other games in my steam library/steam family library, so I'm pretty open to others as well, I'm more interested in the person than the games themselves. I do NOT enjoy fps/comp shooters or straight horror, so please do not expect to play those together. I'm sure there's other things I'm forgetting or that I'm open to trying together if we click.
I like to laugh, and make inappropriate and sometimes dark jokes. I WILL make fun of things/people, I think I was born to be a hater, except for the things that I really love. I try to be laid back about most things, and for me, communication is so important. I would rather be blunt and talk about the bad things up front, not hide them away until they become a bigger problem later. Can't solve what we don't discuss. I saw my future with someone until a few months ago, and I'm not sure I'm over them, so a romance isn't necessarily something I'm looking for at this time (fun, friendly flirting as a joke is okay, but it would take a lot for me to fall for someone right now). I'm an introvert, but I do try and put effort into relationships and once someone is one of my people, you'll find it hard to get rid of me lol. I do struggle a lot with anxiety and overthinking, so... there's also that. I do hope that there will be someone out there though who will be willing to put up with me!
If a lot of this appeals, please feel free to send me a DM! Anybody that just says "hi" or "can we play" will be ignored, I believe first impressions say a lot about who you are, and are an indication of how the friendship will go. To reiterate what I said earlier, I'm really looking for one person to be my person, so if you think that's you, please share as much of that up front as possible, as I'm only going to add the one or two people who I really believe could be the right friend on Discord, so as to not waste anyone's time (yours or mine) in a friendship that ends up going nowhere.
(PSA that I'm posting this right before I sleep, so answers may be delayed a little. That said, watch me be awake for the next three hours because I have no self control, lol).