u/CollarParty7737

Hi everyone, M42. I got married back home in India and I sponsored my wife. She came in 2024, soon after coming (a few months) she left me. She did it on the basis that I am "abusive" I want to make it clear I have NEVER EVER on abused her physically or verbally. I learned after that her family has planned for this to happen so she can get her PR here and remarry.

I'm perfectly okay with this woman being out of my life, however in the past week she's been contacting me about agreeing to divorce. She and her lawyer have been contacting me strangely asking me to agree but I asked to meet in person with her lawyer so I can see the papers. She's very calculative and tries to use me so I want to make sure she isn't trying to take any money from me.

Her lawyer told me he can't show me any papers because of confidentiality and he just wants to sit down and handle it like "family" (I dont even know this man). I have a meeting with him tomorrow.

What is the best way to go about this? I have a bad gut feeling that shes doing something to hurt me again

Edit: A very warm thank you to all the comments. This has been the biggest stress for me for the past few years and through everyone's kind words and encouragement, I have contacted a lawyer that specializes in family law and immigration law. Additionally, I will be reporting her to IRCC and let them handle the situation regarding her status here.

If anyone has had experience reporting someone or has been through something similar, please let me know! I would love some guidance on this.

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u/CollarParty7737 — 14 days ago