My name is K. and let me start by saying I am not proud of this at all. This was 10 years ago, I used to go to a school in Cleveland Oh called CSA. I was in 6 or 7th grade when I meant my then bestfriend Stesia. I had no friends and I was at a new school so I did whatever Stesia said. I’m a shamed to admit it but I was like her little puppy, plus her family her a bit more money than mine. some reason stesia hated this one girl let’s call her C (she’s been through enough so I wont say her full name)
C was the weird kid but super sweet, however she was very naive and thought everyone was her friend. She came from a horrible home and just wanted someone to be her friend and love her for her. looking back I truly hate myself for what I did to her.
Backstory, C and Stesia went to school in elementary school together. S was suspened because she punched C in the stomach. S got severely punished by her parents. So much so that they took her out of the school (this was in 2nd or 3rd grade before me and her met) . Fast forward to middle school and guess who is there? C and Stesia not in the same classes however. The first time I met me now Ex Bestie was at lunch. I asked to sit next to her she says yes. We start hanging out and everything is going good, but I noticed that she is ALWAYS eye C like everyday. She went up to C and I guess they talked everything out or whatever the case may be. C does not have an issue with Stesia, but Stesis hates C. So a few weeks go by and Stesia starts spreading rumors about C. I pull her to the side and before I could say anything she starts saying how C said I was a h*e and was trying to get with her man. ( I know at the time it was dumb to believe her) so me and her came up with this plan. We were going to go on a smer campaig. We started telling everyone C was dirty and didnt shower. I even had some of my friends help frame her for stealing someone’s wallet ( sorry amber). This whole time C doesn’t know who it is so shes crying to us about the rumors we made.
On the last week of school Stesia gets into a fight with Miracle at the library, and stesia gets her a** BEAT. ( Stesia got dragged ) Guess who just so happens to be videoing recording the whole thing? C. This just makes stresia hate her even more.
Fast forwarded to next school year, C and Stesia are cool or whatever. At this point in time I start to see Stesia for who she really is but me and Stesia share everything so if I stop being friends with her she will tell all me secret (she literary said this to me). So this is where it everything goes south. A few months into the school year, C relizes me and S are not her friends. She started hanging out with other people and I’m like okay whatever because I have no issue with this girl my bestfriend does. Sometime goes by and Stesia starts hanging out with C, idk what she said to her to get back friends we’re friends. Apprently stesia had a boyfriend and he has a friend. Fastfowrd there is a video going around of C “bobbing for apples”. Stesia, her boyfriend and her boyfriend’s friend had set up C into thimaking that if she did that “thing” for him they would be a couple. So C did it, but so did Stesia. Stesia didnt know that HER boyfriend Zae also recorded Steaia ”bobbing for apples”, and sent it to people at his school. I don’t know how stesia found out , but next thing you know stesia calls me and tells me we have to end her. I ask her what does she mean and she tells me that she will do the something simlar to what she did with T and J, she tells me that she has done this before plenty of times. (she hacked into Janeas school account and started messaging our math teacher, sent her direc messages calling the teacher out her name, the she sign of every message with “tooter scooter” which was Tamara’s nick name, she did that to make it seem like Tamar hacked into Janet’s account. She literally framed 2 people at once. It took me years to realize she was a f**cking crazy.)
Back to C, Stesia is going on and on about ways we can force C into depression so she can end herself without us having to lift a finger. Thisis when I had enoug, I tell Stesia she needs to calm down because I’m not going to jail over her dumb a** issues with C. She goes cold, quiet and tells me that she knows everything about me and I mean everything. I’m in a position to where I either help her or I will be “next” and I didn’t want to find out what she meant by that so I helped her. Because of all the drama this school year C couldn’t stay focused on her grades, so she ended up failing 7th grade.
Summer time is now here, me Stesia and Cs boyfriend at the time come up with plan. C‘s boyfriend liked Stesia so he was willing to do what we needed him to do. The plan was to make a fake page and pretend like it was C, and next time Cs boyfriend went over to his house he needed to record them having s*x send it to stesia. (They have their clothes on in the video but you can tell what they were doing. She did look at the camera but that was after she asked him like 3 times not to recorded. he had no shirt on and she had a shirt on, all you saw was the upper half of there bodies but you could clearly tell what they were doing even if it didn’t show any nudity.). He does that, now C is crying to Stesia and me trying to figure out why he would do this and we are just like “damn that’s crazy“. So then a few days later we make the fake page called Lezzy Lee and started talking sh*t about everyone from our school. Everyone thinks it’s C. it’s like 100 students wanting to fight this girl and she doesn’t know why. So she texted me a long paragraph stating that she thanks me for being her friend and that she is going to end herself, the world is too much and she cant handle it anymore. I show stesia and she just laughs, scary laughs. In that moment all I could ask was why? what was the really about? Stesia says let’s meet in person at the park. We go to the park, C is there !! Stesia told C to come to park so that they could unmask who is behind that fake instagram page, but really stesia wanted a video of C at the park so she could post it and make it seem like C came to the park to fight her.
I tell Stesia we need to go home now. She says no so I leave her there. She calls me 2 hours later saying C beat her up and I said I don’t believe you. She starts sceaming saying that no on believes her about anything and how her mom hates her and I just tell her I have to go. I hang up, I can not do this anymore. I can’t tell anybody what I did, but I couldn’t let it go on. Stesia texted me and said if I opened my month to anyone that she would put all the blame onto me and say it was my idea. I get a text from C saying that she was done with life, and I lost it on C saying she is always a victim and wanting attention. She just read my text messages, apologized to me and I haven’t heard from her since. Stesia stopped being my friend a year or so later because I guess she didn’t need me anymore. I really thought we were going to be bestie for life.
10 years later, Stesia has two successful businesses, a restaurant (Pipe n Hot Grill LLC) and a daughter. Has a booming social media presences at 20,000 followers @ steveslittlesister and makes good money.
I found C on Facebook and she is struggling with mental heath issue and doesn’t have many friends. I feel like this is unfair, because looking back on everything this was petty drama that didn’t need to go as far as it did. this all started because C was tried of Stesia bullying her. and in returned Stesia thought it was okay to ruin her life, all because Stesia parents disciplined her.
For those of you wonder why I am just now saying something, it took me to have a kid to realize I wouldnt want anyone to do this to my kids. I was young dumb and being blackmailed as well. I also turned my life over to god and I needed to get this off my chest. sorry if this is messy and has typos.
Stesia if your reading this, F you and I hope C kicks your ass one day.
Edit: for those of you asking, yes Stesia sent both videos to the whole school and it ended up on a spam page. Yes you may remember the video as it got over half a million views (several spam pages posted it on instagram and facebook)
Edit 2: I understand now that what I did was wrong but I am trying to change. That’s why I wanted to know if it was a good item to reach out to her to see if she is doing okay. But clearly you guys are going to just berate me and ask me if it’s fake. I just want her to know I’m sorry that’s all.