Genuinely...why is dating as a person of the Faith so hard? It's rare to find anyone who shares the same faith in Christ, and when you do, they say that just to bait you and their true colors show after a while. I just want to get married. I want a healthy and Christ centered relationship.. but I feel like its so impossible. Anyone else have the same problem?
As-salamu alaykum,
I struggled with this for a long time, especially on my computer. I tried a lot of porn blockers and accountability apps, but the problem was always the same... when urges hit, it was usually way too easy to uninstall them, disable them, or find some workaround.
That cycle kept repeating until I finally found a setup on my Windows PC that was truly locked down and, for me, felt completely non-bypassable. Once I removed the option to relapse from my computer, the battle became so much easier because I wasn’t relying on willpower alone anymore.
This video helped me set it up:
If you keep relapsing on your PC, stop depending on apps that can be removed in 2 minutes. Remove access first. It made a huge difference for me, Alhamdulillah.