u/Clean_Computer_9364

I am tired of my life now

So i am a software engineer and graduated from a good college(IIIT). My weekdays are the best, i am piled up with many tasks which keeps me busy, but i am extremely lonely on weekends. I do have male friends with whom i go to gym and other places, but i got like zero female friends. Its been 22 years , i haven’t even talked to a female gender.
Naah its not because girls don’t prefer to talk to me or i am creep, its because i am just an introvert person who can't initiate conversation, and even if a girl talks to me irl, i have no idea how to carry on the conversation. I studied in boys school(it was not boys school btw, but there were only 4 girls in my class, and around 60 boys). So i never had any talk in my school , during college time, i was focussed on my studies, so i never initiated.
But since now i got a job, i need someone. I am not saying , that i am very desperate please talk to me blah blah... No its been 22 years, i managed to pass these years, if i don't get a female interaction, i'll manage to pass the further years also, i am just giving a try, in hope i find someone.
So yes i am looking for female friends, don't worry man i won't asked you for meetups, even I’m scared of girls, so i won’t ask for that. Also i just want a cool girl, ok like the one who is opened up, not an introverted one, because me being introvert and you also, it will never work. And please just be a kind person i'll be kind and respectful to you as well, this is a least i expect and nothing.

My dms are open, if you are uncomfortable at start, i can understand that reddit is full of creep guys, we can start with Linkedin as well.

Also don't give me those advices, go outside meet new people, and bla bla(senseless advice like bhook lag rahi hai toh khana kha lo, top karna hai toh poore din padhai karo vali advices). If i could do this , toh ab tak kar leta. So i'll start from chat only and then will see where it takes.

And to the reddit mods, i am not M seeking F desperate guy , i want a friendship bro, so please don't come up with your rules.

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u/Clean_Computer_9364 — 5 days ago

I am tired of my life now

So i am a software engineer and graduated from a good college(IIIT). My weekdays are the best, i am piled up with many tasks which keeps me busy, but i am extremely lonely on weekends. I do have male friends with whom i go to gym and other places, but i got like zero female friends. Its been 22 years , i haven’t even talked to a female gender.
Naah its not because girls don’t prefer to talk to me or i am creep, its because i am just an introvert person who can't initiate conversation, and even if a girl talks to me irl, i have no idea how to carry on the conversation. I studied in boys school(it was not boys school btw, but there were only 4 girls in my class, and around 60 boys). So i never had any talk in my school , during college time, i was focussed on my studies, so i never initiated.
But since now i got a job, i need someone. I am not saying , that i am very desperate please talk to me blah blah... No its been 22 years, i managed to pass these years, if i don't get a female interaction, i'll manage to pass the further years also, i am just giving a try, in hope i find someone.
So yes i am looking for female friends, don't worry man i won't asked you for meetups, even I’m scared of girls, so i won’t ask for that. Also i just want a cool girl, ok like the one who is opened up, not an introverted one, because me being introvert and you also, it will never work. And please just be a kind person i'll be kind and respectful to you as well, this is a least i expect and nothing.

My dms are open, if you are uncomfortable at start, i can understand that reddit is full of creep guys, we can start with Linkedin as well.

Also don't give me those advices, go outside meet new people, and bla bla(senseless advice like bhook lag rahi hai toh khana kha lo, top karna hai toh poore din padhai karo vali advices). If i could do this , toh ab tak kar leta. So i'll start from chat only and then will see where it takes.

And to the reddit mods, i am not M seeking F desperate guy , i want a friendship bro, so please don't come up with your rules.

reddit.com
u/Clean_Computer_9364 — 5 days ago