He doesn’t find me sexy
So my husband 31M and I 31F have been together 10 years married for 6.
We were having a financial conversation and I joked I’ll need to start doing only fans and he said he’ll have to join to so I’d have a subscriber. I said what do you mean? I’d get a few I know not many but some would find me fun to look at and I asked him did he really think no one would be interested to which he couldn’t say anything.
I know when we got together I wasn’t his type (his type was 5’6” petite and small chested) but I thought he grew to find me sexy. We do the bedroom dance several times a week I thought it had changed. I’m working on losing weight but I’m 5’10” wide shoulders D chest and ample butt and BMI of 40. so I’ll never be his preferred type but maybe I could get closer to being attractive. I know he loves me but why am I so hurt that he doesn’t find me attractive nor thinks anyone else would find me attractive. I’m lucky that he loves me and tells me I’m his favorite person and he’s so lucky to have me because he loves me.
How can I stop being so hurt