u/Cirquey_

I've been asked to work at a Shiva (in the US) as a server, but I'm not familiar with the tradition. I'm not Jewish myself and haven't attended a Shiva or other Jewish event before, so I'm not really sure what to expect. Is there anything I should know about how to dress, greet people, or generally act? It's an informal arrangement, so I don't have any guidance and just want to know how I can best be respectful and do a good job.

Thank you!