So I met this guy (m27) on hinge. Me (24) and him directly started texting over insta. 2 days pass and I go out with my friends and he wants me to come over after. So I do. I get there and we have sex. Great sex. During the rounds we were already cuddling. Great after care.
Next day he texts me that he thought is was great and wants to see me again. And said late night booty call.
Keep in mind we both have „ looking for nothing serious“ in our hinge bio. And he did ask me on the first night why someone like me doesn’t have a boyfriend. I just quickly answered I don’t want one.
The next day I go back to his place we have sex. Intense cuddling and me giving his head a massage and him massaging my back. I end up staying the night.
Next morning he shows me his Appartement but no coffe or anything I just leave.
Fast forward we habe meet another 2-3 times go have sex. Always in the evenings and either weekend or like Thursday.
He has asked me if I get tested regularly because we’re ha ing sex without a condom. I said yes I do and he said he does too.
So while having sex he often tells me that he is only mine and sometimes while sexting he said stuff like his dick belongs to me.
Obviously don’t know if he does mean it like that.
I feel like I do start to like him a little as a person because of the intense after care we have and long hugs before I leave.
So now I’m thinking about asking him if he is seeing other people and having sex with them because I don’t want to risk getting STIs. And should I ask about being exclusive? I’m not sure if this might be too much?