u/Chocolate_Glue

First thing's first, my dog Lechonk is my world, she's so smart and pretty and kind <3

Now about me. I'm in uni, majoring in biology. I love rambling about my interests, mostly anime (currently Mob Psycho 100, bnha, and fma:b), animals, and my extensive oc lore. My other hobbies are collecting oddities, drawing, and various forms of crafting.

I love horror media, and anything surreal or voidpunk, and a dream of mine is to own a monitor lizard and many snakes.

Aroace and very romance repulsed, so we will not get along if that's a big part of your life. That's really my only hard boundary, but I'm also autistic and have bpd, so it helps if I'm talking to someone who's also neurodivergent.

Lately I've heard and experienced so many small sentiments that stick in my soul like microplastics in the gut of an atlantic salmon.

"When you get married..."

"You'll find the right person, don't worry."

"Every women wants to have children eventually"

"Marrying the love of your life is something we all dream of."

"Having kids is the most fulfilling thing that can happen in your life."

"You can still do IVF without a partner"

In isolation, these are small harmless statements, but hearing them over and over and over and over again isn't fun. I don't want to get married, I experience zero romantic attraction and have an equal desire for kids. The thought of either of those in my life is so alien and unnatural to me, and yet I'm starting to feel invisible. It really seems that my life has less value just because I don't want the same cookie-cutter white bread life that the people spewing this stuff desire.