u/ChocolateChipSmore

Hi everyone. We’ve been trying for 6 years, and finally decided to look into IVF late last year. We’ve decided to go with the public healthcare system, as it suits our needs financially right now. After an ultrasound, blood tests and a painful HSG exam, they determined that both of my tubes may be damaged or swollen. I’ve been ordered to do another ultrasound to look specifically for this, but have been informed that if I want to move forward with IVF, that removing both tubes would be the most optimal. If I don’t, possible toxic fluid may enter the uterus and make it an unhealthy environment for the embryo. Apparently, the success rate is better for me if I follow this advice. The problem is, there are only two cycles of IVF I can do financially, and if they are unsuccessful… I can never get pregnant on my own ever again. I am turning 35 this year, and have been trying for so long, so of course I want to make the most of each cycle. I just don’t know how much faith I want to put into these two cycles. Has anyone else on here done this? Were you able to conceive successfully? How did you feel? I know all situations are different, but I just want to hear how you are coping with this kind of situation. I’m obviously devastated right now. Thanks. 🥺😔