My roommate 26 yr male roommate has really bad meltdowns. Like throwin shit, slammin doors and sometimes hurting himself. I dont know much about autism, but I know he's on the spectrum and that hes said hes and lots of therapy n such to help him manage things. But recently things have been bad, he miss managed his rent money so I had to cover some <220$>, not butt hurt about it. He's a cool guy and ik he'll pay me back when he has a chance, ive told him so aswell. But then he also had issues with his phone, an the wifi bill which we share. Which hey shit happens we've all fucked up, it sucks. But I decided to help cover part of it,<60$ on top of my other 60$ that was ogrinally for it>
Couldn't cover it all because im already strapped for cash. He's chill with it, im chill with it. But it seem like the stress of all this caused a blow up today, over the fact I won't change my days off so we can have separate days off [i have consistent days off, his schedule changes every week, for the most part] any advice would be cool. Also it scares the shit outta me when he hits himself, good advice to prevent it getting that bad is great. Top tier, maybe even god tier