EII and LSI love relationship
I am an EII woman and I have had relationships with two LSI men. Unfortunately, both of my relationships ended badly. I don't know if they could have continued with a more effort, but it doesn't seem like both sides could accept the other as they are. Therefore, I don't think it's worth the risk.
(Reminder: I am not a socionics writer. Those are my personal experiences and my perception. If you feel something is wrong, you are very welcome to discuss it on comments)
Frankly, they were strange relationships. They lasted not so long. In my opinion, an LSI man appears to me as rude, harsh, judgmental, lacking in kindness, intimidating, and dangerous at first. Later, I can see the deepness. However, it is very difficult to establish rapport with LSIs. Gaining their trust will be extremely challenging. Even for an EIE, this seems difficult. It will take a long time for these two types (EII&LSI) to understand each other. If there is no obligation to be around each other, they will probably break away from each other quickly. Even if they feel an attraction, what draws them together will be the same thing that initially push them apart. These men often struggle with intense feelings of judgment and insecurity within themselves. In fact, some may treat their partner badly just because they don't trust anyone. Because, according to them, everyone could betray them, and they need to take precautions before that happens. They have the idea in their minds that everyone could betray them. An EII will go to great lengths to prove to them the opposite. EII may assume the role of a mother in the relationship, but LSI does not need a mother! EII will constantly analyze her psychological state and try to understand what the problem is. LSI, on the other hand, will not like EII's overly emotional analytical stance. EII will hold up a mirror for him, but LSI will break that mirror and become angry. Because for LSI, emotions are like an unused room in the house. The room is there, it even needs some cleaning and maintenance, but LSI will often ignore this. EII's intervention is a threat to LSI. At times, LSI may rely on EII, only to later become disillusioned, believing that EII is trying to deceive them. LSI perceives EII's help and affection as manipulation and deception. Because EII's love means covering up the other person's shortcomings, helping them, and making them better. LSI, even if they need this help, will reject it. This can be a very passionate, toxic, and intense relationship for both sides. Both sides hate each other, but for some reason neither of them knows, they continue to respect each other. In sum, this is a love-hate relationship.