u/CeronusBugbear

I transitioned a long long time ago. And I've been single for pretty much over a decade now. Its exhausting. I've felt this has been the way guys react to me all these years but now one actually said it explicitly. What am I supposed to do with this knowledge that I have a great personality and I'm attractive but guys still dont "feel" attracted to me?

I turn 40 next week. The existential crisis is picking up momentum fast.