u/CelebrationVisual720

I've known this person for 13 years and I have always felt that whatever 'this' is, it's real, enduring, emotionally honest and soul level.

That feeling has been shaken. Not broken. There's not been any major betrayal, or any devastatingly clear evidence that nothing that was ever said or felt was meaningful.

Just a random request to help a family member of theirs that I don't know. I took it to mean support and advise them with a specific application process and route into my industry.

But after contacting the person to see if I could support they were clear that that's not what they want support with, that they want to use my professional position/reputation and specific professional contacts, to materialise a business premise they have. It's really common for people to feel they have the right to say to people "i don't want anything to do with you, i just want access to your business contacts", I know.

But going back to this chart, current transits etc I don't understand why this person, of all the people I have ever known, or the depth of connection I thought we have, would a) think I would go along with this, or b) think that this wouldn't hurt or offend me or c) why this whatever it is, would be the relationship that survived Uranus in Taurus, on my ascendant, moon and Venus, or endure for 13 years full stop, if it wasn't, or is no longer, or isn't intended in future, to be based on all the things I thought it was?

I've known this person for 13 years and I have always felt that whatever 'this' is, it's real, enduring, emotionally honest and soul level.

That feeling has been shaken. Not broken. There's not been any major betrayal, or any devastatingly clear evidence that nothing that was ever said or felt was meaningful.

Just a random request to help a family member of theirs that I don't know. I took it to mean support and advise them with a specific application process and route into my industry.

But after contacting the person to see if I could support they were clear that that's not what they want support with, that they want to use my professional position/reputation and specific professional contacts, to materialise a business premise they have. It's really common for people to feel they have the right to say to people "i don't want anything to do with you, i just want access to your business contacts", I know.

But going back to this composite, I don't understand why this person, of all the people I have ever known, or the depth of connection I thought we have, would a) think I would go along with this, or b) treat me like that.