Howdy! Been wanting to get back into Stardew but find that doing it on my own can tend to feel monotonous. Would love to develop a neat little community (preferably mainly a safe space for LGBTQ+ folks) to game with! :) I live in California and mainly play on the weekend and some afternoons.
First, I'd like to preface this by saying I know reddit isn't therapy, I just don't have much of an option for healthcare right now.
(23F) When I was younger(15ish), I was loosely told that I had schizoaffective disorder by a professional-- now, I am starting to realize these symptoms are likely a product of (for me specifically) either side of the spectrum of mania or depression; no matter how long I spend in that state.
I am new to learning about bipolar disorder in a way that makes sense and resonates with me. I have been an alcoholic for about 5 years, up until I was 20; then began drinking heavily again [handle+ a day when I was younger; and then again] after about a year and a half of being sober-- which I imagine isn't helping, but I have cut back-- I started actually feeling the full range of emotions possible. I find that I have no relative neutral "baseline;" only "baselines" for my mania or my depression. A lot of the days I find myself going through the most that-emotion possible from any and every emotion in the span of a few hours.
I haven't really had access to healthcare treatment (in the US, if it wasn't obvious) because of a revolving cycle of self medicating, normally making it worse because I'm "self medicating," and not having money for proper treatment because I've had such a long history of "self medicating," and always being just below the threshold of income to get help when I am functioning.
Every day is a wild struggle and feels like I'm constantly processing input from 10 years ago and I've been catching myself dipping in and out of psychosis. I've fucked up and restarted my life an uncountable number of times and I constantly feel at the mercy of whatever emotion spill I have minuet to minuet. I guess I'm just wondering if its even possible to begin to manage this shit without professional help, or if I'm just gonna be watching myself spiral in third person until things are so much more unfixable than they are now. You guys play Disco Elysium? Very that.
Thanks and (wrong subreddit, however,) chairs.