u/Carloss5686

I've never play a soulslikes before because of the reputation of difficulty. I'm not familiar with this kind of games and what may seems like forced difficulty/unfaireness is usually something that I hate in videogames. Today I'm willing to give it a try.
I've heard that Darksouls 3 is the best of it's category but I like the aesthetic of Sekiro. What do you think ? What's the best choice ? Which on is the most new user - friendly ?