u/Careless_her

Hi, I’m 22F and I’ll be moving to Pune in a few months

Honestly one of my biggest fears is socialising from scratch in a completely new city so I thought I’d start somewhere that lets me be myself without having to fully disclose my identity first

I really want to make some genuine girl friends to explore cafes, chill, talk about life, do random plans, and just make the city feel less lonely.

A little about me:

I’m very straightforward I don’t do fake vibes or two-faced behaviour. What I am, I am on your face, and I appreciate the same honesty in return. I’m the kind of person who gives 100% effort in friendships once I feel comfortable with someone.

And yeah I'm always a girl's girl >

So if you’re also new to Pune, looking for real friendships, love cafe hopping, late-night talks, spontaneous plans, or just need a safe girl-friend vibe, we can connect 🤍

No pressure, no weirdness, just hoping adulthood gives me the friend circle teenage me always wanted lol💌

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u/Careless_her — 6 days ago

Everyone says “your vibe attracts your tribe” meanwhile my vibe apparently attracts character development and solo cafe dates

Always wanted one of those chaotic friend circles where people randomly plan chai runs at 11 PM, force you out of bed, send dumb reels all day, and somehow end up sitting in the same cafe for 4 hours discussing life

Instead, I somehow mastered the art of doing everything alone.

Now I’m moving to a new city and my biggest concern isn’t rent, safety, or adulthood It’s literally will I finally find people I vibe with or am I about to become that mysterious girl who cafe hops alone with headphones forever?

And honestly being alone isn’t even the problem anymore. I’ve learned to enjoy my own company. But some places, sunsets, cafes, random city explorations they feel like they were meant to be shared with people who get you.

Anyway if this new city gives me a friend group great. If not, catch me romanticizing loneliness with overpriced coffee again 🫡

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u/Careless_her — 6 days ago