u/Careless_Gas2106

is it normal to get completely obsessed with guys during period/ovulation? have been feeling ashamed of it

hi everyone. so I’m 16F and i’ve been thinking about this question for a while now and it’s not really something i want to discuss with people close to me sooo :) but i’d really like to know if anyone else deals with this because it makes me feel ashamed and awkward at times!!

so like whenever i’m ovulating, my attraction to guys goes through the roof basically, it gets to the point where i can barely think of anything else but guys, not just a slight increase but it almost feel like an unhealthy obsession for a few days!! same pattern every month. the part that makes me feel the weirdest and most ashamed is that i even start feeling intensely attracted to guys who normally aren’t necesarily my type, or even older men who i normally wouldn't look twice at, just literally any guy, it literally feels like my brain and body get hijacked for a few days and becomes unhealthily obsessed!! :(

i’ve been feeling a lot of shame and guilt about this. i’ve been raised religious so maybe that adds to the shame. like my question basically is, do any other girls experience it this intense, similar to me?? is it kinda normal for my hormones to change your "type" and make you feel this crazy? hopefully lol cause it’d make me feel less alone!!

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u/Careless_Gas2106 — 5 days ago

hi everyone :))

good morning y’all!! I figured it would be nice to meet some new people and find some new friends maybeee :)

i’m honestly really a girly girl and have hobbies that some would describe as shallow maybe 😭 I love shopping, doing my hair, fashion, interior design, baking, and I like volunteering at events and doing kids face painting, seeing their happy faces make me happy 🎨 ✨

i also love nature and summer, love the beach, swimming, playing some tennis or other sports, music (Lana del reyyy has my heart) 💕

I really don’t know what else to put here I’ve never been great at describing myself but just hoping to meet some new fun people :)) don’t be shy to reach out!!

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u/Careless_Gas2106 — 12 days ago

hi everyone :))

can’t really fall asleep so I figured it would be nice to meet some new people and find some new friends maybeee :)

i’m honestly really a girly girl and have hobbies that some would describe as shallow maybe 😭 I love shopping, doing my hair, fashion, interior design, baking, and I like volunteering at events and doing kids face painting, seeing their happy faces make me happy 🎨 ✨

i also love nature and summer, love the beach, swimming, playing some tennis or other sports, music (Lana del reyyy has my heart) 💕

I really don’t know what else to put here I’ve never been great at describing myself but just hoping to meet some new fun people :)) don’t be shy to reach out!!

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u/Careless_Gas2106 — 12 days ago