u/Captain_AS_

So I'm 16(m) and I let go of the phobia of being gay recently. Like I wasn't homophobic, I had mad respect for openly gay guys for not giving a damn about what other ppl think abt them and being who they really belive they are. But the idea of me being with another guy really scared me idk why. But recently I rlly got tried of being someone I'm not and having this phobia of 'what if I'm bi or gay' so I js let go of that. And now I rlly wanna date other guys. How do I find other queer guys who are also into men? And more importantly , how do I present myself to them so that they don't think 'ugh another straight guy' 🥹 pls guys help. And pls don't say 'wait till college' cause I genuinely don't want to. Also , is there like a thing that queer men do to let other queer men know that they're queer and into men? Plssss help a fellow queer man out guysssss🫶🙏🙏🙏