u/CaptainSuperStrong

Good place to buy houseplants that aren't overpriced?

I've been slowly adding more greenery to my apartment and I'm hooked. Only problem is the places I know about near me either charge way too much for basic pothos or the plants look sad and half dead. I don't need anything rare or fancy, just healthy plants that won't fall apart a week after I bring them home. I've checked the big hardware stores but the selection is hit or miss and sometimes they have pests. Wondering if there are any smaller nurseries or even random shops around Fort Lauderdale that have good prices without the boutique markup. I'm willing to drive a bit if it's worth it.
Also curious if anyone has had luck with Facebook Marketplace or plant swaps around here, or if that tends to be a gamble. I'm still learning so I don't want to spend a ton, but I also don't want to keep bringing home plants that are already struggling. If you have a go-to spot for affordable and healthy plants, I'd love to hear it.

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u/CaptainSuperStrong — 18 hours ago

Greenwashed crib mattresses are making me lose my mind

seriously why does buying a simple bed for a toddler require a degree in chemical engineering. im so exhausted from the mental load of this

We are transitioning my 2yo to a floor bed and I started looking at those popular "breathable" and "eco friendly" mattresses that get pushed all over instagram. you guys... almost all of them are literally just spun polymer. its a giant block of plastic woven together. and they have the nerve to charge $300+ for a glorified pool noodle!

Not to mention the whole flame retardant issue. My mom bought us a standard mattress from a big box store for my baby shower and even after airing it out for a week it still smelled like a chemical factory. I went down such a deep doomscrolling rabbit hole last night trying to find something that doesn't off-gas into my kids lungs while they sleep

I eventually learned that wool is naturally fire resistant so you bypass the chemical laws entirely. we wound up just getting a plain wool mattress from home of wool just to completely escape the polyurethane foam madness

it just makes me so mad that the baseline standard here is to douse baby products in chemicals, and then companies greenwash their plastic cores as some sort of premium health product. the decision fatigue is so real today. Please tell me im not the only one who loses sleep over spending 4 hours researching a literal rectangle for their kid to sleep on.

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u/CaptainSuperStrong — 1 day ago

What's a weekend road trip from FTL that feels like a real escape?

I've been in Fort Lauderdale for a while and I love it, but lately I've been craving a proper weekend away that doesn't involve flying or fighting Miami traffic. I'm talking about a drive that's three hours or less where the destination actually feels different from home. Not just another beach town with the same stores and same vibe. I've heard people mention the Keys obviously, but that drive can be brutal and it's still very beach focused. Others suggest Naples or Sanibel, but I'm curious about places that might be less obvious. Maybe somewhere with springs, or a small town with a walkable main street and decent food, or even just a quiet spot with decent hiking where I can actually hear myself think. I don't need luxury resorts or nightlife. Just a change of scenery where I can unplug for 48 hours without feeling like I wasted the drive. For those of you who have done this, where do you actually go when you need to reset? What's a destination that surprised you within a reasonable radius? Also would love to know if you have favorite stops along the way, like a weird roadside attraction or a solid lunch spot. Trying to plan something for next month and would rather hear from locals than scroll through another clickbait listicle.

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u/CaptainSuperStrong — 2 days ago

What's your go-to rainy day activity that isn't a mall or movie?

We're getting into that time of year where afternoon storms pop up out of nowhere. I work from home so most rainy days I just end up staring at my laptop then watching the weather radar until it passes. I'm trying to break out of that and actually have a few go-to things to do when the beach or outdoor plans get washed out.
I know the standard answers are the movies, the mall, or maybe a museum. But I've done those enough times. What are some more interesting indoor spots around Fort Lauderdale that you actually look forward to on a rainy day? Could be a coffee shop with a good vibe for reading, an indoor climbing gym, a pool hall that isn't sketchy, a bookstore with chairs, or even a random hobby shop where you can just browse for an hour.
I'm near downtown but willing to drive 15-20 minutes if it's worth it. Also open to things that are a little weird or off the beaten path. Just trying to build a mental list for when the sky opens up and I don't want to sit on my couch refreshing Instagram. Bonus if parking is easy and it's not overrun with tourists.

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u/CaptainSuperStrong — 4 days ago

Thinking of firing a client because their safety requirements are getting out of hand. Anyone else done this?

Look I get it safety matters. But I'm a small concreter in Brisbane with 4 guys. We do driveways paths slabs nothing crazy. Never had a serious incident in 8 years touch wood. Got a new client a few months ago. Builder doing townhouses. First few weeks were fine. Then the safety requests started coming.

First they wanted site specific SWMS for every single pour. Ok fine I can do that takes an hour. Then they wanted a full risk assessment for our concrete pump which we've used 200 times no issues. Then they wanted evidence of ongoing WHS training for all my guys. Then last week they asked for an independent safety audit of my whole operation before theyd release payment for the last job.I nearly lost it.

I'm a concreter not a paperwork factory. Every hour I spend on this nonsense is an hour I'm not pouring concrete and making money. My guys are getting frustrated too they just wanna work.Part of me wants to tell this builder to get stuffed and go find other clients who aren't so precious. But the other part knows work is a bit quieter than last year and I can't really afford to lose a steady gig.Has anyone actually fired a client over excessive safety demands? How did it play out? Did you regret it or was it a relief?Also curious what other small tradies do as a middle ground. Do you just charge the client for all the extra paperwork time? Or push back and say this is what you get take it or leave it.

Keen to hear your stories and advice. Cheers

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u/CaptainSuperStrong — 4 days ago

Saw some news about challenges in the marine retail space and it got me wondering how things are looking here in Fort Lauderdale, especially with how big boating is to the area. For anyone who works at or regularly uses marinas, boatyards, or marine supply shops around here, have you noticed any changes recently? Are places busier than usual, slowing down, or just staying steady?

I’ve always thought of Fort Lauderdale as pretty resilient because of the year-round boating culture and all the seasonal traffic, but I imagine rising costs, insurance, and maintenance might be affecting both businesses and boat owners. Curious if people are cutting back, delaying upgrades, or shifting where they shop and dock

Also interested in whether smaller, local shops are seeing more support or if bigger chains are still dominating. If you’ve got any firsthand experience or observations, would love to hear what you’re seeing on the ground

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u/CaptainSuperStrong — 8 days ago

I’ve been in Fort Lauderdale a couple years and feel like I’m stuck rotating between the same Las Olas / beach spots. They’re fine, but between parking and prices it adds up fast. I’m trying to find more low-key places where you can sit outside, catch a breeze, and still eat for ~$20 or less.

Open to anything. Taco spots, Cuban places with a patio, casual breweries with solid food, etc. I’ve driven around Federal and a bit west and I know there are tons of places, just hard to tell what’s actually worth stopping at. Any favorites you keep going back to?

Also a bonus if they’re open past 9pm, my schedule’s a bit all over the place.

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u/CaptainSuperStrong — 10 days ago

My wife and I are coming down to Fort Lauderdale for our anniversary next month. Were staying near the beach but willing to drive a bit for something good. Looking for a dinner spot that feels romantic and a little special without the whole white tablecloth silent treatment vibe. Somewhere with good food, maybe nice outdoor seating or water view, but still relaxed enough that we can actually talk and laugh without feeling like were in a library. Not trying to dress up super fancy either. Just nice casual.

We love seafood but open to anything that isnt a chain. Price isnt a huge deal but I dont need to spend $200 a person either. Somewhere in the middle would be great.

Ive looked at a few places online but its hard to tell what's actually worth it versus just tourist hype. Would rather hear from locals who have been around a while. Also anywhere with good cocktails would be a plus.

Thanks in advance for any suggestions.

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u/CaptainSuperStrong — 13 days ago

 I've lived here for a few years now and I feel like most visitors stick to Las Olas or the beach near Elbo Room. Nothing wrong with those places, but I know there's so much more to this area.

I'm looking for recommendations for spots that aren't in every guidebook. Could be a hidden dive bar with good food, a quiet nature walk that doesn't feel crowded, a hole in the wall restaurant that's been around forever, or even a weird little museum that's worth an afternoon.

Places like the Secret Woods Nature Center or the small taco spot tucked into a strip mall off Commercial. That kind of thing.

What's a place you take out of town friends to show them the real Fort Lauderdale beyond the tourist loop? Bonus if it's affordable and has been around long enough that it actually feels like part of the city's character, not just something new and overpriced.

I'm especially interested in spots between downtown and up toward Pompano. But honestly anywhere in Broward is fine. Just trying to find some new favorites before summer really hits.

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u/CaptainSuperStrong — 15 days ago

I’ve been trying to find some good places around Fort Lauderdale to catch the sunset without dealing with huge crowds or long waits. I know the popular spots like Las Olas and the beach areas can get pretty busy, especially on weekends

I’m more interested in those quieter, maybe slightly underrated locations where you can just relax, maybe bring a drink or snack, and enjoy the view. Could be a park, a dock, a neighborhood spot, or even somewhere along the Intracoastal that people don’t usually think of

Bonus points if it’s easy to park nearby or if it’s a good place to take someone visiting from out of town who wants that classic South Florida vibe without the chaos. I don’t mind driving a bit if it’s worth it

Also curious if certain days or times make a big difference for some spots. Like, are weekday sunsets noticeably calmer in certain areas?

Would love to hear your go-to spots or hidden gems. Trying to build a small list to rotate through over the next few months

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u/CaptainSuperStrong — 16 days ago