Is this relationship worth it? I (24F) and my partner(28M)
So, it all started when I told my mother about my relationship with my bf. I went thru immense torture and trauma and had to leave him. But he came back to me again and again. We reconciled and I got my job in his city. Everything was going fine until one day I was diagnosed with depression. One of the causes of my depression was the torture and torment I endured from my family. Initially, he was so understanding and he was the one who took me to the doc. But after sometime he withdrew! Said anything to me without thinking how it will affect me. Ik he too is going thru a lot but I have no one in this city and my family is also far away. It became so hard that I legit had a bad breakdown in front of him and he ran away because he has seen his mother like this his entire childhood and never truly got the love of his mother. My therapist is suggesting me to break up because i am getting triggered by him a lot. Not even my family or job does that but him. I did said this to him and he said shaam mai baat krte hai. Idk what to do! Also one of his friend said that I am using this condition to my utmost good. So, that people work according to me. Tbvh, I don’t want this anymore but I also get his situation too! I am confused as to what to do?