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You can call it insecurity if you want but when the whole friend group is starting to notice, it's not overthinking, it's not fucking insecurity, it's not me being stupid.
You're acting like too much towards someone who, you think, doesn't have their heart in it.
He does. He's fucking obsessed with you and he latched onto you like a leech and you think it's just someone matching your friendly vibe.
But it's not a quirky flirty cool easy going person. I know that because I've known him longer than you. All of us have. We all notice it. What do you think he means when he reposts and deletes all those reeeally out of character stories? Do you genuinely think he gets the hint when you repost one 'back off' video and ghost him for a few days?
I can tell it's a bad situation because when you do he starts posting desperation slop and "oh its so hard to keep going". Yeah, you did that.
Genuinely I'm so frustrated and annoyed with you and there's no way for me to actually tell you this except hoping your ass stumbles across it here.