u/CanaryWhich1287

Reasons for creating trust (Wisconsin)

I'm interested in some educated opinions or personal experiences involving elderly couple starting a trust at an advanced age. Family members of mine had a revocable living trust. I have not seen the formal document so don't know the exact start date. However, the wills I got copies of are dated 2/22/24 and they indicate that everything rolls over to the trust.

The reason I'm asking is that my first reaction to this is suspicion. For instance, the husband died 2 days after the will was signed. The wife died 18 months later. Between the two dates the house they lived in for 20+ years was sold for a nice amount. But that's all I know of. It could be that the trust was started long before that but that brings up another question. Isn't it "normal" that if someone starts a trust that they would also have wills done as a matter of course?

If they changed beneficiaries of the trust, the wills don't need changing since they simply refer to the trust, correct? There were no children to add/remove due to family squabbles or death or marriage, etc. I was told that to some degree the wills are superficial when the trust exists. Or a better way to put might be that it's superceded by the trust.

And as I said, they had no children. The only sibling I've ever known of theirs is my mother who was killed in a car accident many years prior. Their parents have passed also. And according to a somewhat reliable source, I'm not a beneficiary despite being the oldest and most closely related person to them.

Anyway, generally speaking, is it all weird for people 84/86 years old to open a trust and write basic wills? Or are the circumstances weird enough to have it looked into?

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u/CanaryWhich1287 — 11 hours ago

Just want some clarification on the rules regarding attorney and/or trustee obligations for disclosing info. In Wisconsin I've got relatives now deceased and there are issues with the wills to start with. I got in touch with attorney who said he was handling estate matters. But he isn't the trustee named in the wills.

I'm running low on time and have asked numerous times for contact info for the trustees to get info this attorney flat out refuses to give me. I've read some of the statutes/laws and it seems pretty clear that as one of only 3 living relatives I'm entitled to at least know what the trust has instructed, whether I'm a beneficiary currently or not.

My gut tells me something isn't right with this. Why would a lawyer be so difficult to someone related to clients of his that he's never met before? I asked some possibly awkward questions I think and he knows better than to open his mouth and make it worse.

Like the stuff that led me to this notion of fraud, there isn't a normal explanation for the behavior of regular people who have no reason to hide anything. It's his damn job to answer questions and get the right info to those involved. I'm family, which as of August consists of myself, my 2 sisters and their husbands & daughters. I'm the oldest at 57.

Its beyond irritating to get silence from someone charging whatever he is for his "work". So how can I get this ball rolling?

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u/CanaryWhich1287 — 15 days ago