Crazy that no one can figure out what to do with men
Literally everywhere you look people are trying to preach to men what they should be. The manosphere sets a list of rules to follow involving shallow and superficial ideals that really mean nothing at the end of the day. TPUSA sets similar rules. Looksmaxxing is possibly the most brain dead and sad set of rules I've ever encountered. Feminism says to be more emotionally available and aware of the patriarchy and fight against it. The far left says you can be and do whatever you want.
Why can't society decide what a man should be? And why haven't we landed on the most obvious choice which is just to be a good person and do the right thing? It seems people don't even know what that is anymore. Wtf happened to ethics and morals and being an upstanding citizen? Accountability and integrity has just vanished. Literally why do we need to subscribe to someone else's ludicrous ideals that never get anyone anywhere? And why can't anyone see past it? And what happened to good dads teaching their sons how to be?
I'm a woman. I know women receive constant mixed messages from every facet of society and always have. This isn't about that. I see young men SO confused about how to be a man. It's literally so sad.