This is the familiar problem that banks are increasingly unwilling to accept mail forwarder addresses (the official term seems to be "Commercial Mail Receiving Agency" CMRA). The post office keeps a list of CMRAs and the banks consult the list and there is no point trying to outfox them.
One option I have is a family address in another state. If I give a bank a residential address in another state, though, does that potentially turn me into a tax resident of that state, liable to its state and local taxes?
Apologies if this is not the best forum! This is the only one I know.
u/CD238754 — 17 days ago