Please take a moment to read this <3
You are allowed to grow at your own pace. Do not be worried or scared that others have achieved more or that you may be growing slower. Some flowers bloom in spring, others in winter. Neither is doing life incorrectly, our fundamental differences are what makes us us. There is no universal timeline for becoming yourself. Be patient, you'll find yourself there in the end, you still have so much time to grow
Remember to stay hydrated, its important for your mental and physical health