u/ButterscotchTotal192

My ex mother in law came into my life when I was 17 I dated and eventually married her son when I was pregnant with my first child I had a dream of her standing with her hand on my stomach in a room with many other women kneeling down and her sons who had tragically passed away from an illness years prior was standing beside me I was 21 at the time but something told me she was trying to place the deceased's spirit in me. I was uneasy and when my son was born she came to the hospital with photos of her son not my partner her deceased son as a baby. From that point on things took a turn in our relationship as it was very unsettling. She began to obviously dislike me when I wouldn't leave my child with her unattended and soon after I became pregnant with my second son. I stayed at her house briefly and my things began to go missing first my hair brush then it turned up completely clean next my waist trainer next my sweater my sons clothing. I moved out within the month and that's where things escalated she came to my new house it was very beautiful the nicest place I have ever lived. She showed great disapproval and made several comments that we did not own the home etc. I paid it no mind many people were happy for us as our relationship was very rocky and our living situation was unstable. Over the next few months I feel pregnant with my third child. Each labor my sons had their cords wrapped around their neck and each labor was very hard on me. Everytime I ate her food I would become violently ill. I had a bad feeling that my third child would die when I gave birth then I began to feel that I would. I come from a praying family my mother made war for me in the heavens. This labor I began to pass out which had never happened before i prayed on the delivery bed then out he came. Unbeknownst to me she was in the labor and delivery room and began to laugh when she saw them running for oxygen asking over and over what's wrong with me. My mother prayed everything was fine. She showed up to my home with her 90yo mother over the next few months unannounced and brought many plants most were not even in pots but random plastic containers. She said she'd be back for them she never came. A pastor came to my house prayed and asked me if someone had brought me dirt I couldn't connect the dots for some reason so i replied no. I began to realize that someone did, disguised as a gift of flowers. I poured them all out my brother tragically passed away over the next few months in a car accident on the most coincidental date. He died on the same exact date that her son did yes, you guessed it. The son that I saw in the dream that she was trying to put in MY BABIES BODY. Exact date now here's the crazy part my relationship with the father of my sons completely fell apart directly after due to domestic violence and then tragically he died in a car accident just like my brother.

So here's my question why did all this happen and is there any repercussions for all that she's done to me? Is this all my fault because of blind ignorance I did love her son I married him.

My ex mother in law came into my life when I was 17 I dated and eventually married her son when I was pregnant with my first child I had a dream of her standing with her hand on my stomach in a room with many other women kneeling down and her sons who had tragically passed away from an illness years prior was standing beside me I was 21 at the time but something told me she was trying to place the deceased's spirit in me. I was uneasy and when my son was born she came to the hospital with photos of her son not my partner her deceased son as a baby. From that point on things took a turn in our relationship as it was very unsettling. She began to obviously dislike me when I wouldn't leave my child with her unattended and soon after I became pregnant with my second son. I stayed at her house briefly and my things began to go missing first my hair brush then it turned up completely clean next my waist trainer next my sweater my sons clothing. I moved out within the month and that's where things escalated she came to my new house it was very beautiful the nicest place I have ever lived. She showed great disapproval and made several comments that we did not own the home etc. I paid it no mind many people were happy for us as our relationship was very rocky and our living situation was unstable. Over the next few months I feel pregnant with my third child. Each labor my sons had their cords wrapped around their neck and each labor was very hard on me. Everytime I ate her food I would become violently ill. I had a bad feeling that my third child would die when I gave birth then I began to feel that I would. I come from a praying family my mother made war for me in the heavens. This labor I began to pass out which had never happened before i prayed on the delivery bed then out he came. Unbeknownst to me she was in the labor and delivery room and began to laugh when she saw them running for oxygen asking over and over what's wrong with me. My mother prayed everything was fine. She showed up to my home with her 90yo mother over the next few months unannounced and brought many plants most were not even in pots but random plastic containers. She said she'd be back for them she never came. A pastor came to my house prayed and asked me if someone had brought me dirt I couldn't connect the dots for some reason so i replied no. I began to realize that someone did, disguised as a gift of flowers. I poured them all out my brother tragically passed away over the next few months in a car accident on the most coincidental date. He died on the same exact date that her son did yes, you guessed it. The son that I saw in the dream that she was trying to put in MY BABIES BODY. Exact date now here's the crazy part my relationship with the father of my sons completely fell apart directly after due to domestic violence and then tragically he died in a car accident just like my brother.