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u/BusyRelationship4458 — 13 hours ago

The list..

And how did you figure out the cost of each item, because I can bet it wasn't research.

$300 vanities on marketplace? Lowes has a basic 24 inch for 159$ that tells me you both probably just guessed on the budget of each item.

“We can’t afford drywall finishers” meanwhile the TikLeap estimates since late March say otherwise… 👀

From 3/25–5/10 alone, the estimated battle earnings are sitting around $10,000+ and that’s before anyone screams “TikLeap isn’t exact.” Sure, it’s an estimate. But even if it’s off, we are still talking THOUSANDS of dollars sent by followers because they were told the family was struggling and needed help getting this renovation done.

Meanwhile:

  • Boxes of decorative plastic wall molding keep arriving
  • Constant Amazon hauls
  • Random unnecessary spending shown on LIVE
  • Daily battles asking supporters to “push”
  • Endless whining about money

But somehow the drywall finishers, which they said were under $5k, are still treated like an impossible financial burden?

At some point people need to ask themselves: why are strangers on TikTok expected to fund a renovation these two clearly could not afford on their own?

Most people laid off for months:

  • cut spending
  • get temporary jobs
  • pick up side work
  • use savings
  • delay renovations they cannot afford

They do not sit on LIVE every day emotionally manipulating followers into paying for home upgrades while acting like victims.

The math is not mathing, Felicia.

MOD NOTES: Thank you to a user who provided the breakdown of $$ earned

“iT’s NoT fUn WhEn tHe BaTtLe IsN’t ClOsE” — Then Build a Better Team

Fe whining that “it’s not fun when the battle isn’t close” because of big gifters is wild considering that’s literally how TikTok battles work.

Here’s a little critical thinking for the high school dropout with the sixth grade mentality and the supporters reading Reddit like it’s the Sunday paper: if you think it’s unfair… then gift.

A League creators built teams that actually support them. Meanwhile, talking shit about big gifters and other teams is exactly why nobody with real money wants attached to your drama-filled mess.

You attract what you put out. And your team is chaos, negativity, broke grandmas, and credit card debt.

Then jumping into Josh’s battle trying to drag your RyanL drama into his live while he awkwardly ignored it? Embarrassing. Josh preaches positivity and definitely clocked you as insecure drama.

u/BusyRelationship4458 — 4 days ago

Thought you should know how after Felicia lost you were the topic of discussion long after. Apparently the whole chat agrees they don't like you..

Why is it because you are pretty? You have nice teeth? What is it exactly?

Thought you should know.

u/BusyRelationship4458 — 7 days ago

Felicia… you didn’t buy this car with Etsy money like you tried to flex. You took out a loan.

Having Etsy deposits just got you approved… it didn’t pay for the car.

And now we know you’re still making payments in 2026?!
From March 2020?!

Be so serious right now.

At that point it’s not even “hard work paid off” — it’s how long did you stretch that loan out??
Did you refinance it? Multiple times? Because a normal car loan should’ve been wrapped up by now.

This isn’t the success story you thought it was…
It’s giving “the bank owns it and always has.”

But yeah… tell everyone Etsy bought it 💀🚗💳

u/BusyRelationship4458 — 10 days ago

Remember when she first moved to LA and had nothing but praise for the PA contractors? Everything was “so much better,” “so professional,” “night and day difference.”

Fast forward to now…
• Complaining about the plumber
• Complaining about the electrician
• Drywall finishers are probably next

So what changed?

Either:
A. The contractors aren’t actually the problem
B. The expectations are unrealistic
C. Or we’re watching the same cycle play out in a new state

It’s just funny how the narrative flips depending on the moment.

But yeah… PA contractors were amazing, right? 🙃

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u/BusyRelationship4458 — 10 days ago

Friendly reminder (since we know how this goes), there will be a LIVE discussion post going up 30 minutes before the battle.

Battle starts at 7 PM EST, so the thread will be live at 6:30 PM EST.

That will be the main post for all the chaos, so keep your comments there instead of flooding the page with 15 duplicate posts.

Please read the rules before jumping in so we don’t have to play cleanup crew while the circus is in full swing.

Thread will be locked after the battle ends… or tomorrow morning if I inevitably knock out. No promises.

Get ready. Should be… intense 😏

u/BusyRelationship4458 — 11 days ago

Nothing is more embarrassing than someone screaming “DOUBLES!! PLAY HARD!! DROP BIG!!” like they’re running the damn team… and not dropping a single coin.

Not a rose. Not a heart me. Not even an accidental tap gift.

Just vibes, volume, and zero contribution.

“Everything you drop is worth double!!”
Yeah? Then why aren’t you dropping anything? Or is your role strictly motivational speaker for other people’s bank accounts?

The audacity to sit there coaching like you’ve cracked the TikTok battle algorithm when you haven’t spent a dime is actually insane.

At this point, it’s not team hype… it’s freeloading with a megaphone.

If you’re not contributing, maybe stop barking orders like you are.

u/BusyRelationship4458 — 13 days ago

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Just a quick heads up, there will be a LIVE discussion thread for tonight’s elimination battles.

For once, I actually planned ahead 😂 it is set to auto-post at 7:30 PM ET.

When it goes up, that will be the main thread for all comments during the LIVE, so make sure you head over there. Please also take a second to read the post so you know what is and is not allowed while the discussion is active.

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u/BusyRelationship4458 — 14 days ago

TikTok Battle “Expert” Study Guide — Loud & Wrong Edition

Featuring:
Paula (mod) & Elizabeth (comment section MVP)
Credentials: No gifts, no strategy, just noise

Step 1: Be Loud While Doing Absolutely Nothing
Paula: “XXXX ONLY INSERT NAME HERE CAN DROP A GLOVE XXXXX!” "XXXX PUSH DONUTS TO FILL THE GAP XXXXXXX"
Also Paula: contributes not a single coin

Elizabeth: rapid-fire comments
“Throw big!” “Drop donuts!” “Make it up!”

Meanwhile… neither of them has put in a dollar.

Step 2: Miss Every Single Important Moment

  • Gloves drop → silence
  • 2x / 3x rounds → nothing
  • End of round → no snipe

It’s actually impressive how consistently wrong the timing is.

Step 3: Spend Other People’s Money Like It’s Your Job
They act like financial advisors… for money that isn’t theirs.

Encouraging everyone else to go big while they sit there empty-handed is wild behavior.

Step 4: The 5-Second Delay Nobody Accounts For
Let’s talk about timing.

Felicia is consistently behind by about 5 seconds (like most lives).
So when she drops a glove at “30 seconds” on her screen… it’s actually closer to 15–20 seconds for everyone else.

Meaning:

  • the team has less time to react
  • the push window is missed
  • and the round slips away

Basic battle awareness would fix this… but here we are.

Since This Seems Hard… Here’s a BASIC Cheat Sheet:

  • Gloves = PUSH
  • Speed rounds = PUSH HARDER
  • End of round = SNIPE
  • Account for delay = DROP EARLIER

Not complicated. Just apparently too much for this chat.

Final Assessment

  • Gifting: 0
  • Strategy: nonexistent
  • Volume: excessive
  • Self-awareness: missing

Conclusion:
If you’re not contributing and don’t understand the game, maybe dial back the play-by-play.

Especially when the commentary sounds like background noise instead of anything useful.

Because at this point it’s not coaching… it’s just loud, wrong, and unnecessary.

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u/BusyRelationship4458 — 15 days ago

Quick reality check because some of these posts are getting sloppy:

Tikleap is an estimate. It’s a ballpark, not exact earnings. Stop stating it like it’s verified fact.

She is not on Medicare. That’s 65+.

She is not on Medicaid. She stated months ago she got private health insurance for herself and the kids, around $1200. Whether she still has it is unknown, but don’t rewrite history.

We can snark all day, but at least keep it grounded in reality. Moving forward, posts spreading straight-up incorrect info are getting removed. Consider this the only warning.

And Felicia… while you’re busy trying to figure out who I am, I’m being nice and giving you a heads up… you’ve got a mole. I like facts, and I really don’t like snakes 🐍

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u/BusyRelationship4458 — 25 days ago

“Doing it all” apparently means tossing drywall out a window while two kids are audibly begging for attention in the background. Anyone actually watching could see she barely checked on them… the audio told the real story.

And this isn’t new behavior. Let’s not forget when she left Pax inside the levee house screaming while she was outside socializing, and people in the chat started getting concerned… just for the chat to suddenly get shut off.

But sure… let’s keep calling it “superwoman” behavior instead of what it actually is.

u/BusyRelationship4458 — 25 days ago

Not her blaming being on too long and missing the little puzzle piece like that’s why her LIVE ended…

Meanwhile TikTok: VIOLATION FOUND. LIVE DISCONTINUED.

So it wasn’t a timeout.

It wasn’t a glitch.

It wasn’t a puzzle piece.

You got banned.

But gotta spin it so the chat doesn’t realize what actually happened, right? 🥴

u/BusyRelationship4458 — 26 days ago

Mad over screenshots… or just looking for a reason to stir things up?

Because calling attention to it only brings more eyes to what people were already noticing — the work seems to show up when the camera does.

If everything was steady and getting done, there wouldn’t be anything to screenshot or talk about in the first place. 👀

u/BusyRelationship4458 — 26 days ago

Let’s translate, since she won’t say it outright.

“I don’t have the smoke” doesn’t mean anything about the battle… it means her viewers aren’t spending enough money. Plain and simple.

It’s code for: go grab your credit card, reload your coins, and start gifting.

And instead of just saying that, she hides behind her mods. Suddenly you’ve got Mag, Paula, Tori, Larae in the comments:

“Recharge your coins!” “Drop donuts to catch up!” “Send this gift!”

So she can read it out loud like, “Oh I’m just reading comments guys…”

No. You’re asking. You just don’t want to look like you’re asking.

Same with the “Lions are so cool” line. That’s not commentary… that’s a price tag. That’s her telling people to drop one without actually saying it.

It’s all so calculated. Every word is just a workaround to avoid saying, “Spend money on me.”

At this point, it would actually be more respectable if she just owned it. Tell your followers to reload. Tell them exactly what you want dropped.

Instead of this constant, awkward, manipulative hinting like people can’t see right through it.

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u/BusyRelationship4458 — 27 days ago

Instead of picking up the phone like a normal person, she had her brother’s wife join her LIVE just to put him on the spot to come help Steven hang drywall on Saturday.

Same thing with the sister-in-law. Couldn’t text or call to cancel the thrift trip for kids clothes… waited until she popped into the LIVE to say it publicly and, of course, add in the whole “we only have one vehicle because the truck we bought with levee money is a lemon” story for sympathy.

Imagine needing an audience just to ask your own family for help so they feel pressured to say yes.

This is the same “village” she rushed back to PA for… yet no one has shown up to help once. Just excuse after excuse:
“My brother threw his back out”
“It’s too far of a drive”
(But somehow not too far when it benefits you?)

And then after he says he’ll be there first thing in the morning, she spends hours on LIVE saying she hopes he doesn’t bail.

Pick up the phone. Have a normal conversation. Ask directly.

You’re 36. Use your words instead of an audience for pressure.

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u/BusyRelationship4458 — 27 days ago

So someone drops “she’s a scammer… be careful” in another creator’s chat and suddenly the vibe shifts REAL quick 💀

What’s even better? Her own people couldn’t wait to run back and report it. “You should see what they’re saying about you…” knowing damn well she couldn’t see it. You could literally watch it eat at her not knowing.

That’s not loyalty. That’s instigating.

A real friend either shuts it down or keeps it moving. They don’t go running back with drama just to stir the pot and get a reaction.

Mag and Kitty didn’t defend her… they fed into it. Big difference.

Because what people say when you’re not in the room? That tells you everything.

u/BusyRelationship4458 — 27 days ago