My gf (f 27) said she needs break from me (m 27) as she is not happy from herself
My gf went to attend a friends wedding (its on 9-10 may )out of town. She just called yesterday to update me that she reached the destination that is it. Before her trip I clearly communicated that I won't text or call from my end as she wants space to declutter herself and think and that I will be waiting for text and call. But today she didn't send any pic (we usually share pics when we get ready or go outside) nor did she even call from her end. Just a good morning text and what her plans for the day
Since past few months, we have been fighting frequently. I am most of the times hurt by her offensive or in-offensive comments she pass and at the end she say she was joking. I did the best I can to communicate my feelings and also tried a lot to ask her what is going on in her mind or is there anything she wants to communicate but she had no answer.
We met just 1.5 years back got into relationship. She was the one who was more lovey-dovey, was the person who intiated everything as I am an introvert. She likes movies but I said no as I don't like watching movies. Plus I try my best not to intervene with her space but she wears showy clothes which also bothers me a lot as we live in tier-2 city of India. I have clearly commuincated to her about my feelings, insecurities but that goes unheeded.
Plus whenever we talk about marriage she says she wants to marry me but doesn't want to leave her father as he is seperated living with his parents (her grandparents). I don't know I feel confused. Plus she is going a no phone trek for 4 days from 11-15 may. I told her it will be very tough for me but again she does not seem to care.
btw our families are meeting next month and this is how she is behaving. I want to ask, is it really normal for people to act totally nonchalant towards one's partner/ relationship or is it just me overthinking