A while ago, me and some friends from college were invited to school as graduates to greet the new students from the year. Things were very fun. It was really nice seeing all these people again after some time.
Since we were only now the recent graduates, we probably wont be asked again next year. However we had a great time and as the day came to a close we pretty much agreed to plan something together with this group of people to keep up the connection.
Now just the other week i saw an instagram story of exactly that group of people have a dinner together. Except i was not invited.
It felt really shitty seeing them get together and not having thought about me. I thought we had a really nice group dynamic. Now i can not shake the feeling that i am nothing but a hinderance to others and they would rather me not be around.
I am not sure if i should confront them about it or if i should just accept that our friendship is dead. During college i really cared for these people and considered them my best friends. Now i wonder if that can change in just over a year or if they never really liked me in the first place.
Tldr: we planned to do something as a group. But when the people came together i was not invited. Now i feel bad.
(English is not my first language so sorry for errors or weird sentences)