I was finally seen by an actual gyno doctor. I've only been able to see NPs due to appts being so far out. He completely brushed me off. He didn't even mention giving me a referral for a vulvodynia specialist. He didn't even read my medical chart and notes from my previous appointment with the NP last time. I'm still having the same symptoms. After the speculum was removed it felt like fire. As if I just had rubbing alcohol poured inside and out of me. I didn't have this reaction last time which is very concerning. The inside had already been in pain, burning and red. He said nothing. I even asked if he could tell me if my pelvic floor was tight and he completely ignored the question.
Im absolutely shocked that all the NPs I've seen had been more caring and listened. This doctor didn't hear anything I said. He asked about soaps I use and told him I switched every item I use even shampoo to fragrance free and he thought I was using shampoo on my privates! When I asked what labs specifically he was putting in, he brushed me off and he said "the ones I need". I need my hormones checked due to some other issues I'm having and after viewing the notes he didn't even request everything I would need. I feel like its just a ploy to keep having people pay to see them. The only doctor he referred me to was an allergy/immunology doctor because he thinks I have a hidden autoimmune disorder causing my issues.
Im so mad and defeated.