u/BunchChoice5530

Me and my wife have been in open relationship/swinging lifestyle since past one and half years.

I have always been a person with very unorthodox open minded perspectives which after a lot of save ventures eventually turned into this.

From all the experience garnered in the past one year something still haunts me. Im well aware that extra marital relations (and even sex before marriage) is still a major taboo in this part of the world but I did realise there still exists this culture in the very depths of our society very secluded and highly private. But what I don’t understand is the gender indifference I have seen in this lifestyle.

True! Men are more sex driven but I have always believed its women who could always enjoy sex the most and the best and yet its women whose reluctant to come out even in a safe space to open up about this. It’s very hard to find married or unmarried women who talks without judgement, who listens without prejudice with whom a man can have a very cordial relationship (be it platonic or sexual). Its still a point of wonder for me that in this world where theres talks about sex positivity, all various kinds of feminism, LGBTQ and stuffs people especially women yet doesn’t come out as often as men.

This post is here to understand this dynamics in the society and what generally is the thought process going on among all of you men or women?