AITAH fo still talking to my ex?
Hello, first time ever sending in but am i the asshole for this, i 28 male still talk to my ex also 28 male, we deeply miss each other, i know that doesn't sound serious but it is. Because he's married to a woman, it all started when he was stationed in my home town doing covid vaccines, we met, fell in love, he left his girlfriend for me (his now wife) and we started dating, we were together for awhile and then he got shipped out to some where else, we started fighting a lot because the distance wasn't working, fast forward 3 years, he starts messaging me again, that he misses me and still loves me, i also missed him and still loved him, we started talking again and started talking about seeing eachother again, fast forward 1 year and he's getting shipped to poland and his family wants him to get married, so he marries the girl he left for me, i know about this, we still talk, say how much we miss each other, he hides this from her and he can't be open about who he is with his family and his job, so all we can do is be states apart and only text.. am i the asshole for continuing to talk to him knowing he's married?