I'm falling in love and it scares me
Hi. I'm a 25-year-old guy from Argentina. Yesterday I had a situation with a girl. We've known each other for three years, and we often have deep conversations. She's going through a breakup from her previous relationship. But we had sex; it was really beautiful, intimate, and vulnerable, and we both enjoyed it a lot. But I know she needs time to understand and figure out what she really wants. I haven't been in any kind of relationship for four years, and all my experiences were...bad. The last one was a disaster because I fell very deeply in love, and the girl didn't want anything serious. Any advice? Several friends told me to just let things flow, but I'm finding it hard.
She contacted me recently, and I suggested we maybe meet on Wednesday (we don't have class that day), but she said it might be better to take things slowly. And I agree, but I'm seriously getting anxious. What advice can you give me to improve this anxiety? I don't want to ruin everything.