Invisibly Single Woman Spills: Dating Sucks for Me Too
I am a woman, yes, we have problems dating too. This is something I have experienced in online spaces and in real life too. For some reason when I talk about how I have never been in a relationship in my whole life guys act like I'm a liar because apparently girls just have to exist and they automatically have tons of guys trying to date them, and it's like Yeah maybe... IF YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE
And that is another point, when I say guys don't consider me pretty enough to date or anything I'm even more of a liar because 'even ugly women have dates' and I'm like 'okay but that's not my experience' and it all comes with this invalidation and almost hate for this alleged lie I'm telling
And I think I know why this is and because for some guys relationship sex and they think having sex as a girl is easier and idk I guess it may be true but also for what I have been told those girls don't even like those experiences as those guys don't care if they like it and I STILL HAVE PROBLEMS IN THAT DEPARTMENT TOO
So yeah, that is my confession, I also have problems of being good enough to attract someone please stop invalidating me because I'm a girl"