Matched with a girl on Tinder. Conversation felt strangely interview like
Where do you live?
What do you do?
Do you drink?
Are you free tonight?
She kept insisting we meet the SAME night around 10 PM and only in her locality. I suggested a midpoint café multiple times, but she refused and kept pushing one specific area.
After reaching there, she delayed for 25–30 minutes until most cafés/shops were closed. Then suddenly suggested buying cigarettes and going to a bar right across the road — the exact place she wanted me to come to.
That’s when I remembered a similar incident that happened with my friend in Pune, where he was taken to a specific venue and ended up with a huge bill.
I refused the bar and suggested a normal café instead. Instantly her mood changed. Suddenly:
“I’m getting late”
“My cousin is calling”
“I have to go”
She left within minutes.
Maybe coincidence, maybe not but the pattern felt extremely suspicious.
Just sharing this so people stay careful
Don’t rush into late-night first meetings
Avoid isolated/specific venues forced by the other person
Prefer public cafés
Trust your instincts if the situation feels scripted
Stay safe.