my fiancee constantly bring up her obsessive ex
Background I guess: I’m 20F my Fiancée is 19F we were both in a bad relationships before we got into ours. I was not a virgin when we got together she was (this is important later)
Hi, I usually just read these but i feel like i have no one to talk to about this because of my fiancee and my friends report back to her.
I have a couple “best friends” so to say two i met in high school pre-her and one i met at basic training while with her. my high school friends know about my first and how that relationship ended and that it was very difficult for me and how much he will have a place in my heart just because of everything that happened. but i do not have any feelings for him at all. i do not mention him or anything really. he has me blocked and he is also blocked.
Her ex is and has been obsessed with her since they were dating, from an outside perspective, she attached and just hasn’t let go. when i came into the picture it became her mission to break us up. DMs, new accounts, no caller id, stalking anything. I have a decently unique style (for where i live not like in the universe) and way that i carry myself and i’ve recently started to notice she’s doing that too. I chopped my hair, suddenly she did a big chop, new tattoo or piercing, she has the same one.
i brought it up to my fiancee in a maybe I’m going crazy way and she just said well my ex will forever have a place in my heart, but when i mention mine it’s “different”.
am i going crazy or just being insecure.