So i went on a date last night with a girl 22f and im 25M. We went out to get ice cream and take a walk and it’s going really well but some things are starting to stick out to me, not in a bad way but a very interesting way. Like things i don’t normally see.
As we’re talking i notice this girl is very intelligent. Like oddly intelligent. Knows a lot about a lot of different things. And i know what you might be thinking “a girl can’t be smart ?” It was almost robotic the way she knew some of the stuff she knew. She also spoke about some of things she was passionate about into deeeeep detail. And i love that i was glad to hear it but it was to the point where i had to pause her to order the ice cream.
Also her pattern recognition and observation skills are through the roof. I consider myself very observational when it comes to human nature and body language. We start people watching a group of 2 guys and 2 girls she just went into a very descriptive way of talking about that blew whatever i had to say out the water. She’s probably one of the most articulate people I’ve ever met. This is when i started to think she might be on the spectrum.
We get back to my place and we’re just hanging out and we start talking about emotional intelligence, dating , sex , all of it. She tells me in social interactions she often masks her real emotion good enough to the point where you can’t tell if she’s faking or not. Her friends apparently comment on this all the time. She then tells me she doesn’t care for sex like at all, really only prefers intense kissing. She says she only does it if her partner really wants to but she doesn’t enjoy it. Doesn’t hurt or anything just doesn’t enjoy it.
I’m probably missing a few details i should add but these are some of the things i noticed and wondering if any of them sound familiar.