Hello everyone. I’m a Vietnamese male. Long story short, we met on Grindr, we agreed to just oral stuff because there were no protection or lube. I admit that it’s my fault for getting on this app in the first place but really no one warned me and I was left addicted to porn, too. Back to the story, we met and everything went completely normal at first. However, he later proceeded to beg for intercourse
— which I refused. As he kept on begging, he started to push me down and hold me. My resistance was weak because my mind was frozen in that moment. That incident left me with a lifelong injury now. When I got home and confronted him via text, he couldn’t even be bothered to reply. I could do nothing about it because I hid everything from my parents and I was underage.
This incident taught me a huge lesson and left me with tons of traumas and mental instability. He blocked me after that. I’ve tried searching for him on other platforms but it didn’t work. I want to spread awareness to everyone because he’s still in Vietnam. He said he works in HCMC and Chiang Mai, Thailand. He’s German-Venezuelan. Included is the image of his account. This is short because I want to keep it brief and get straight to the point. I’m happy to provide more details. Thank you for reading this!
EDIT: I did told the doctors the truth and they said it’ll heal but won’t be gone forever so I’ll have to learn to live with it. The injury thing is resolved now. I just want to spread awareness because he’s still out there living his life freely and he could do this to someone else.