I feel like my life is going to shit
3 years out of law school. Worked over a year in ID and absolutely hated it. Took FMLA and then quit when I got a job in PI. Lasted 6 months. Took FMLA again. Both times I had performance issues (making mistakes, unable to handle high volume work) and am certain I would’ve been let go from my second job soon had I not left. I was fine in school and high school type jobs/internships before my career and always very hardworking so this is all really something I never suspected to be dealing with. Now I’m 6 months unemployed and job searching for 5 months. I’m doing doc review now so my unemployment gap closed at 4 months. I’m almost 30 and live with my parents temporarily until I find another more stable legal job. I’ve hated being a lawyer so far but I’m not in a place to make a major career shift right now, nor would I know what that would be. I know life has its ups and downs but my life has been going to shit ever since I graduated law school. Not to mention the difficulty of finding a non-litigation/JD preferred job as a new lawyer with short job stints and an unemployment gap. I feel so far off from where I thought I’d be 3 years post-grad, especially compared to my friends. I’ve also been single for over a decade so that’s the cherry on top. I know there are MUCH worse problems to have in life but that doesn’t help me feel much less miserable.