u/Both_Photograph9042

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We broke up about seven months ago, one of those situations where two people who liked each other couldn't make the timing work, bla bla bla. We ended on good terms but that's never the case. I hadn't thought about downloading a dating app until a friend made me do it at her place one night and I put together a profile in about 20 minutes and forgot about it for two weeks. Four days ago I opened the app and he was in my likes. I recognized the photos immediately, he'd used the one from that trip he took last spring in Seattle and I just stared at it for a second. I was playing on my phone for like an hour after that doing everything except deciding what to do about it and eventually I matched because I dont know really. That was four days ago and neither of us has sent anything. I've opened the conversation maybe six times and closed it without typing a word and knowing him I'm almost certain he's done the same thing 
I don't know what I want the outcome to be and I think that's kind of the problem. I'm just sitting with this open conversation that neither of us is brave enough to start and wondering if the match itself was supposed to say something that neither of us knows how to follow up on.

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u/Both_Photograph9042 — 8 days ago