Been in the house a month now, yes, it’s not what we had hoped or dreamed of. Lots of stuff needing fixed, quite costly and still living in chaos. We bought the house thinking it would be more liveable. I think I’m getting more accepting of it but my husband is continually miserable, depressed which amplifies the underlying anxiety of this big move.
He feels trapped and really not enjoying the place, as we left a rental where we both really loved living but rent was gettingtoo expensive.
We’ve also got a boot of a neighbour that has made our first month living hell.
Which has been all consuming trying by to sort, as th friendly patient approach clearly doesn’t work.
We’re good humans who just want a peaceful life and now thinking why are we forever just faced with challenges and can’t get a break.
Neighbour is clearly manipulating the system which is also so sad to see how society has got like this.
I feel like throwing in the towel as done in.