u/Both-Diamond-8981

Just today I broke up with my girlfriend of a little over a month because I am pretty sure that I’m aromantic. I’d been thinking about it for years but I never admit it out loud or even to myself until I told her. It was over facetime too, even worse. She went quiet for a bit before we talked about it for a little and then I ended the call. She texted me later and she says she doesn’t hate me but she wants time away from me for a few weeks, which I get. She also wants to be friends again in the future, which is great because I still like her platonically. I just feel like shit because I lead her on for so long and she‘s one of the sweetest people I’ve ever met. Has anyone else ever been through this?