u/Both-Definition-1706

TL;DR: Cis parent losing faith over his kids being damned to hell because they are gay.

Also if this isn’t appropriate mods please delete.

To start off I am cis male daddy of two gay kids, ones is on binary and the other is still figuring them selves out. Both born female.

So I am having a really hard time right now. I have been “Christian” my entire life. I was raised in it. I came to my own understanding and relationship with him in my teen years and never really cared for “religion”.

So fast forward to now. I had this idea in my head that Jesus Christ was here to die for our sins. He was kind, compassionate, and loving. But I am having a problem with homosexuals being marked for hell, as in if you are gay, it’s a sin. I can’t understand how a loving good would say my child that I knew since before 5 years old was gay. 8 was confirmed. We always raised them with you are who you are and as long as that way doesn’t hurt others, awesome! If others are uncomfortable that a them thing. Which I have had to remove family members from my kids life because of their intolerance.

But I don’t know, just feels like the God I have had a relationship with wouldn’t make someone suffer in Hell because of love.

Any guidance will be greatly welcomed!

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u/Both-Definition-1706 — 16 days ago